Hi Dads,
Firstly apologies, I know this question has been asked a million times before, and I have read previous advice given.
Long story short, I split with the mother of my child beginning of september. Amicable at best, but we quickly agreed dates etc, On weekends I dont have my boy I have him tues/weds for the nights. Weekends I do, I have him Weds night and Fri/Sat/Sun. Over the past 10 days, she is constantly trying to say I am not allowed to make plans just in case i need to have him. 100% this is to see her new fella. I dont know what to do, as I am feeling guilty for making plans on my days where im not supposed to have him! What do I do? It feels like shes using my child as a weapon against me. Amount of times she's called me a bad dad, and I dont want anything to do with him is insane. I have full Screenshots of conversations, showing dates we have agreed, and some of the text abuse.
Firstly apologies, I know this question has been asked a million times before, and I have read previous advice given.
Long story short, I split with the mother of my child beginning of september. Amicable at best, but we quickly agreed dates etc, On weekends I dont have my boy I have him tues/weds for the nights. Weekends I do, I have him Weds night and Fri/Sat/Sun. Over the past 10 days, she is constantly trying to say I am not allowed to make plans just in case i need to have him. 100% this is to see her new fella. I dont know what to do, as I am feeling guilty for making plans on my days where im not supposed to have him! What do I do? It feels like shes using my child as a weapon against me. Amount of times she's called me a bad dad, and I dont want anything to do with him is insane. I have full Screenshots of conversations, showing dates we have agreed, and some of the text abuse.