Hi, V here
I’m having issues with ex because I lied to her about seeing somebody and she found out why I was communicating less and needing some weekends to myself. I have my son most weekends but some I work and some I ask to have free so I see my girlfriend, I never see son in the week, only Friday night to Sunday night. Ex has son every day meaning when I skip a weekend she gets no break. She has no family nearby. Just her. Son is 3
I work Monday to Friday and one Saturday a month and she works Monday to Wednesday because she had to due to having our son who is 3. She worked full time but couldn’t anymore.
Son goes to crèche Monday to Wednesday full days when ex works and I pay for this. £700.00. I pay nothing else. I work as senior management. She earns minimum wage.
We had only incident domestic violence reported against me by her doctor year ago (after she confided in the doctor thinking it was confidential). She refuse to press charges so that ended there. I know she can’t face me being arrested so not worried about that, she would not report.
But Question is will the report by doctor influence hearing?
Will courts allow her to get what she wants which is me to see son every weekend if never in the week or 50/50 one week each or weekdays and nights and every other weekend?
Can she sue for maintenance ?
She is very angry and strong willed and I’m so so anxious.
We are at the very beginning she only just told me she is going to go CAO and also maintenance so nothing happened yet but I know next two weeks she 100percent will
I’m having issues with ex because I lied to her about seeing somebody and she found out why I was communicating less and needing some weekends to myself. I have my son most weekends but some I work and some I ask to have free so I see my girlfriend, I never see son in the week, only Friday night to Sunday night. Ex has son every day meaning when I skip a weekend she gets no break. She has no family nearby. Just her. Son is 3
I work Monday to Friday and one Saturday a month and she works Monday to Wednesday because she had to due to having our son who is 3. She worked full time but couldn’t anymore.
Son goes to crèche Monday to Wednesday full days when ex works and I pay for this. £700.00. I pay nothing else. I work as senior management. She earns minimum wage.
We had only incident domestic violence reported against me by her doctor year ago (after she confided in the doctor thinking it was confidential). She refuse to press charges so that ended there. I know she can’t face me being arrested so not worried about that, she would not report.
But Question is will the report by doctor influence hearing?
Will courts allow her to get what she wants which is me to see son every weekend if never in the week or 50/50 one week each or weekdays and nights and every other weekend?
Can she sue for maintenance ?
She is very angry and strong willed and I’m so so anxious.
We are at the very beginning she only just told me she is going to go CAO and also maintenance so nothing happened yet but I know next two weeks she 100percent will
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