Hello everyone again. I've posted a few times before. I've got an update from my wife(ex to be) to my solictor regarding our arrangement for our 6 week old baby. And it's absoulelty horrible and this woman is just making life as tough as possible.
Firstly she has me blocked everywhere so I cannot contact her anywhere. I can only contact her through my solictor which costs money which she is doing on purpose I assume. ( because she did write my solictor only contact through herself is possible)
Her arrangements are like this:
90mins on Wednesdays and Saturdays between 12-3 in a child contact centre near her. I need to provide the cost. They like £70 an hour these centres. ( I work weekdays so I will be impossible) again this is on purpose.
It can only start from 1st April because of covid regulations she saying.
I need to take a drug and alcohol text 24 hours before coming in. (I don't drink and I don't take drugs) These tests are on my expense.
This is complete NUTS. WHAT life is this for a baby. I ain't abusive. This is prison.
My family haven't even seen her yet. She doesn't send a picture or video atall. She has my families number.
In that same letter she did write we can work around times to make it flexible to avoid courts and fees. But I'm willing to take this matter to court because its ridiculous. And also she had 7 days to reply to mediation which she hasn't.
Any advice guys please. Than you
Firstly she has me blocked everywhere so I cannot contact her anywhere. I can only contact her through my solictor which costs money which she is doing on purpose I assume. ( because she did write my solictor only contact through herself is possible)
Her arrangements are like this:
90mins on Wednesdays and Saturdays between 12-3 in a child contact centre near her. I need to provide the cost. They like £70 an hour these centres. ( I work weekdays so I will be impossible) again this is on purpose.
It can only start from 1st April because of covid regulations she saying.
I need to take a drug and alcohol text 24 hours before coming in. (I don't drink and I don't take drugs) These tests are on my expense.
This is complete NUTS. WHAT life is this for a baby. I ain't abusive. This is prison.
My family haven't even seen her yet. She doesn't send a picture or video atall. She has my families number.
In that same letter she did write we can work around times to make it flexible to avoid courts and fees. But I'm willing to take this matter to court because its ridiculous. And also she had 7 days to reply to mediation which she hasn't.
Any advice guys please. Than you