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Tenants in Common refers not to landlord/tenant but house ownership. Look it up on Google, along with the other phrases regarding this aspect, then look it up on the deeds for the house.16 and 2.
We have the 2 year old together.
We aren’t tenants.
I need to double check the deeds but I’m very sure it’s my name.
"Family Marital Home" -It will be classed as the "former marital home"
Absolutely.If you can try and keep things amicable - do - even if it means acting - to protect yourself in the longer term.
That's spot on.If he owns the house himself it will just be as sole owner. But yes Stay Strong is right - tenants in common is a way of having joint ownership with both parties separately owning a half of the house (which they can will separately) as opposed to the usual joint tenants (usual for a married couple) which means that they both own the house in its entirety and if one dies the other automatically owns the house (ie their half can't be willed elsewhere). Whether married or not.
NO.I appreciate all the information so far, and it became physical (on her part) today ahead of me reaching out on this forum. Unfortunately the only witness is our 16 year old son but that’s an absolute dead end if I were to involve the police.
I will start documenting events and recording as much as I can. I will raise the conversation of the arrangements for the children and try to get it in writing. With regards to the house, is selling an option?
Make a diary note about what happened but write it as if it's a formal report (ie keep emotion out of it) - in case you need to show it to someone else at some point.I appreciate all the information so far, and it became physical (on her part) today ahead of me reaching out on this forum. Unfortunately the only witness is our 16 year old son but that’s an absolute dead end if I were to involve the police.
I will start documenting events and recording as much as I can. I will raise the conversation of the arrangements for the children and try to get it in writing. With regards to the house, is selling an option?
She had the 16 year old from a previous relationship but I took him as my son.Make a diary note about what happened but write it as if it's a formal report (ie keep emotion out of it) - in case you need to show it to someone else at some point.
So something like - This evening while trying to discuss life after separation, Ex name became very angry and attacked me, punching me in the chest. Son name was there and saw this. I retreated to another room to avoid further conflict.
In the real world you might think it's equal and women can just as easily be the perpetrators. In family court it's not like that - if you accuse the ex of anything it will count against you as a future co parent. If she accuses you of anything, you just deny it and keep to a mantra "I just want the children to have happy loving relationships with both parents".
Yes start mediation asap. Google family mediators in your area, phone round them and make an early appointment or with the one you like the sound of. A mediator should make clear to your ex that if she doesn't agree reasonable arrangements for the children with you after separation, you could apply to court and the court would give you a standard order for time - so it's better to reach agreements and draw up a parenting plan.
You said the two year old is your child together. What about the 16 year old?