Hello Dads,
My story started after anonymous abusive emails I was receiving and lots of police complaints. After feeling and cross-questioning my ex - I understood it was her sending them but instead of getting angry I
filed for a divorce and C100.
After this, she started abuse stories without evidence and managed to get legal aid etc.
Social service delayed the S7 report in the 3rd hearing. The solicitor didn't forward disclosures from the police due to bereavement excuse in the 4th hearing.
Police said there is no evidence.
5th hearing was the addendum report ordered and the child’s wishes and feelings were considered.
S7 has no safeguarding issues and recommends co-parenting.
In addendum, the child doesn't want to see me.
The final hearing is scheduled for in Sept 2025. I don't have access to my child, not getting indirect letter responses.
After all the legal costs I couldn't afford to pay the child’s school fees so I asked ex via her solicitor if she could pay from the savings for this term.
One very stupidest thing I did was “accept” when she said to keep our savings in her bank account, now that money disappeared, she is saying there is no money.
Her solicitor wouldn't share the new school info. I didn't agree to change but they just went ahead and changed the school. There is also a court order that “school cannot be changed” but fee issue so I didn't consider it as a breach.
Another issue - A few months ago discovered that the maternal family is involved in unsavoury business activities. Got lots of evidence, witness, bank transactions etc.
Here I am thinking what a 1.5-year-long never-ending nightmare this is.
I am focusing first on safeguarding my child and a way to stop the maternal family from contacting my child.
What options do I have?
Can't tell the social worker - ex and SW are like soul sisters.
And how do get access to my child? Waiting until Sept 2025 without contact is driving me crazy.
Thank you for reading…
My story started after anonymous abusive emails I was receiving and lots of police complaints. After feeling and cross-questioning my ex - I understood it was her sending them but instead of getting angry I
filed for a divorce and C100.
After this, she started abuse stories without evidence and managed to get legal aid etc.
Social service delayed the S7 report in the 3rd hearing. The solicitor didn't forward disclosures from the police due to bereavement excuse in the 4th hearing.
Police said there is no evidence.
5th hearing was the addendum report ordered and the child’s wishes and feelings were considered.
S7 has no safeguarding issues and recommends co-parenting.
In addendum, the child doesn't want to see me.
The final hearing is scheduled for in Sept 2025. I don't have access to my child, not getting indirect letter responses.
After all the legal costs I couldn't afford to pay the child’s school fees so I asked ex via her solicitor if she could pay from the savings for this term.
One very stupidest thing I did was “accept” when she said to keep our savings in her bank account, now that money disappeared, she is saying there is no money.
Her solicitor wouldn't share the new school info. I didn't agree to change but they just went ahead and changed the school. There is also a court order that “school cannot be changed” but fee issue so I didn't consider it as a breach.
Another issue - A few months ago discovered that the maternal family is involved in unsavoury business activities. Got lots of evidence, witness, bank transactions etc.
Here I am thinking what a 1.5-year-long never-ending nightmare this is.
I am focusing first on safeguarding my child and a way to stop the maternal family from contacting my child.
What options do I have?
Can't tell the social worker - ex and SW are like soul sisters.
And how do get access to my child? Waiting until Sept 2025 without contact is driving me crazy.
Thank you for reading…
