Hello everyone
I have a child arrangements order which states in the school holidays I have my child in my care from Tuesday 11am - Thursday 11am.
I also have alternative Christmas contact.
This is what the court order says for Christmas this year:
Christmas 2024
You will spend time with xxxxx from 4pm on Christmas Eve until 4pm on Christmas Day.
Xxxx will spend time with xxxxx from 4pm Christmas Day until 4pm Boxing Day.
As Christmas Eve is on a Tuesday this year, I am unsure what time my contact time should start. I read it as I should have my child from 11am, as that is the time I usually have her on a Tuesday. I am pretty sure my ex will say I can’t have my child until 4pm because of the wording of the order and she likes to be extremely difficult with things. I understand Christmas Day is Wednesday which means I won’t see my child on this day as I usually do because of the day Christmas falls on which is fine. It feels unfair if I don’t get to spend time with her from 11am on the Tuesday (Christmas Eve) as the order only states from 4pm but I know my ex will focus on the wording of the order and argue she won’t drop her to me until 4pm. We also have a family birthday on Christmas Eve, so if she refuses contact until 4pm my daughter will miss the family party.
What is everyone’s opinion?
I have a child arrangements order which states in the school holidays I have my child in my care from Tuesday 11am - Thursday 11am.
I also have alternative Christmas contact.
This is what the court order says for Christmas this year:
Christmas 2024
You will spend time with xxxxx from 4pm on Christmas Eve until 4pm on Christmas Day.
Xxxx will spend time with xxxxx from 4pm Christmas Day until 4pm Boxing Day.
As Christmas Eve is on a Tuesday this year, I am unsure what time my contact time should start. I read it as I should have my child from 11am, as that is the time I usually have her on a Tuesday. I am pretty sure my ex will say I can’t have my child until 4pm because of the wording of the order and she likes to be extremely difficult with things. I understand Christmas Day is Wednesday which means I won’t see my child on this day as I usually do because of the day Christmas falls on which is fine. It feels unfair if I don’t get to spend time with her from 11am on the Tuesday (Christmas Eve) as the order only states from 4pm but I know my ex will focus on the wording of the order and argue she won’t drop her to me until 4pm. We also have a family birthday on Christmas Eve, so if she refuses contact until 4pm my daughter will miss the family party.
What is everyone’s opinion?