Hi Everyone
I have some questions incase yous have some experience.
I have 2 children 9 months and 2 year old.
Been separated for 6 months. Things where fine I seen my kids on a daily basis. Due to the fact that I still cares for her children too. School runs doctors clubs etc ......
3 weeks ago she had an argument with me and stopped contact.
Now I am approaching it with legal help.
I have had my lawyer send letter to her to try sort out arrangements.
I believe she had spoke and acted out of anger and now she fears that if I take kids I won't return them to gain revenge.
Although I am very angry with her I would never use the kids. But she refusing to let me take them. And she will not agree to shared custody. She is offering me the weekends.
I am taking it to court for 50/50 custody.
I believe a child should have both parents equal as they would if the parents where together.
Question
How long can it take to have a court order in place?
Is there away to make it faster at all?
If there is a reason court would rule in her favour why would that be?
Dose the court believe that 50/50 is the best decision where possible?
I don't believe my children should be in that environment. She doesn't really care for the kids. Instead she use them where she wants people to feel sorry for her or looking for people to tell her what a good mother she is for the way they look. There is no rules in place there is constant fighting with in other sibling. Aggressive behaviour shown from older siblings 10/12/14 fizical fights on a daily basis. I don't want my kids having to grow up listening to that as an example.
It may sound simple but it's not the house is out of control. What do I do? Phoned social work but they haven't done anything. I am lost of how to get them out of that situation.
I have some questions incase yous have some experience.
I have 2 children 9 months and 2 year old.
Been separated for 6 months. Things where fine I seen my kids on a daily basis. Due to the fact that I still cares for her children too. School runs doctors clubs etc ......
3 weeks ago she had an argument with me and stopped contact.
Now I am approaching it with legal help.
I have had my lawyer send letter to her to try sort out arrangements.
I believe she had spoke and acted out of anger and now she fears that if I take kids I won't return them to gain revenge.
Although I am very angry with her I would never use the kids. But she refusing to let me take them. And she will not agree to shared custody. She is offering me the weekends.
I am taking it to court for 50/50 custody.
I believe a child should have both parents equal as they would if the parents where together.
Question
How long can it take to have a court order in place?
Is there away to make it faster at all?
If there is a reason court would rule in her favour why would that be?
Dose the court believe that 50/50 is the best decision where possible?
I don't believe my children should be in that environment. She doesn't really care for the kids. Instead she use them where she wants people to feel sorry for her or looking for people to tell her what a good mother she is for the way they look. There is no rules in place there is constant fighting with in other sibling. Aggressive behaviour shown from older siblings 10/12/14 fizical fights on a daily basis. I don't want my kids having to grow up listening to that as an example.
It may sound simple but it's not the house is out of control. What do I do? Phoned social work but they haven't done anything. I am lost of how to get them out of that situation.