I wanted some advise on child access of my 18 month old son . I split with my ex when he was 6 months old I have been having him every other Saturday 9am to 9 am on Sunday and Sunday 9am to 5pm alternating . However as I have nothing legal in place she can pull the rug from under me when she likes , for example say she's taking him away for the weekend so I can't see him . I also only saw him for one day at Christmas even though we both had ten days annual leave , I asked for a day with him and she refused. Although I've seen him most weekends as agreed it hasn't come without threats leading up to the weekend saying I can't see him and I'm constantly anxious and upset.
I'd like to know the best approach as I'd like a little bit more time and tk be able to take him on holiday . IHaving previously used a solicitor then dropping it i've been advised by a friend to go straight to mediation and possibly court if she doesn't agree . I don't want to jeopardise the time I currently have him and worry a court may give me less as he is young. Just wondering if anyone has any advise .
I'd like to know the best approach as I'd like a little bit more time and tk be able to take him on holiday . IHaving previously used a solicitor then dropping it i've been advised by a friend to go straight to mediation and possibly court if she doesn't agree . I don't want to jeopardise the time I currently have him and worry a court may give me less as he is young. Just wondering if anyone has any advise .