Hi all, I recently (30 Oct 24) exchanged Form Es with my soon to be ex and in the form she mentioned that a NMO was in place. This was a shock and the first I heard about it. After ringing a number of Luton Courts (finally getting to the Family Court), I found out that she submitted an application on 19 Sept 24 requesting and immediate NMO due to my alleged behavior. I also found out the the court hearing was on 22 Oct 24 so I missed it. I got the Court to send me all the documents including the application and the pre court hearing NMO granted for 12 months and stopping me contacting her and my three boys. The official court document stated that all document should be sent to me by email to myemail.com unfortunately I have myemail.co.uk so I never received the documents including the court date. My other half also stated that she did not now where I could be contacted my post so put my work address down, however, nothing arrived. She lied as I have photographic proof of an envelope she forwarded to my mother's address a week before the application was submitted.
In addition to this on 1 Sept 24 she had me arrested for alleged Abuse and financial control. I was arrested and bailed whilst the investigation played out. I have since heard that the Police Emerald Team have closed the investigation with no action. I need to challenge the whole process as I have yet to be officially notified by the courts of any application and due to their error in sending to wrong email was not able to defend myself in court.
It seems that my ex if following a well trodden path of making false allegations to get free legal aid and with a view to improving her divorce outcome. As shortly before the allegations she changed solicitor from one she was paying for (as evidenced in the Form E Disclosures) to a new solicitor that as yet payments have not shown on her bank statements.
I need help to challenge the NMO:
1) due to the Court error and not being able to defend myself in court
2) to get the NMO set aside based on false allegations that have already been thoroughly investigated by the Police and Social Services and both files closed.
Any help would be gratefully received.
In addition to this on 1 Sept 24 she had me arrested for alleged Abuse and financial control. I was arrested and bailed whilst the investigation played out. I have since heard that the Police Emerald Team have closed the investigation with no action. I need to challenge the whole process as I have yet to be officially notified by the courts of any application and due to their error in sending to wrong email was not able to defend myself in court.
It seems that my ex if following a well trodden path of making false allegations to get free legal aid and with a view to improving her divorce outcome. As shortly before the allegations she changed solicitor from one she was paying for (as evidenced in the Form E Disclosures) to a new solicitor that as yet payments have not shown on her bank statements.
I need help to challenge the NMO:
1) due to the Court error and not being able to defend myself in court
2) to get the NMO set aside based on false allegations that have already been thoroughly investigated by the Police and Social Services and both files closed.
Any help would be gratefully received.