Hello all.
Over Christmas and new years my ex tried to stop all contact with myself and our daughter because I couldn't afford to send her money for our daughters nursery holding fee. (Which would have been extra as I do pay CSA) She blocked me on Facebook and everything else including her phone so I couldn't call or send texts to her. So I put in a C79 form to the courts even though at that point no contact had been missed. I found her email address from previous emails and messages and managed to contact her through email. When I explained that if contact was prevented it would be a breach of the court order she reluctantly relented and "allowed" the usual contact and every subsequent contact has happened as usual. So my question is this; as contact wasn't prevented and has happened as usual what do I do next? I don't want to withdraw the C79 as I believe if I did I'd lose all credibility but as contact has been usual there's nothing for the court to enforce. My worry is that next time I do or say something my ex doesn't like she'll try to stop contact again as the contact schedule we currently have is above the original court order as the order was to progress in line with our daughters pace and development and I tried to get the agreed schedule in to a new order but the courts wouldn't do it.
Any help with this would be greatly appreciated
Thanks.
Over Christmas and new years my ex tried to stop all contact with myself and our daughter because I couldn't afford to send her money for our daughters nursery holding fee. (Which would have been extra as I do pay CSA) She blocked me on Facebook and everything else including her phone so I couldn't call or send texts to her. So I put in a C79 form to the courts even though at that point no contact had been missed. I found her email address from previous emails and messages and managed to contact her through email. When I explained that if contact was prevented it would be a breach of the court order she reluctantly relented and "allowed" the usual contact and every subsequent contact has happened as usual. So my question is this; as contact wasn't prevented and has happened as usual what do I do next? I don't want to withdraw the C79 as I believe if I did I'd lose all credibility but as contact has been usual there's nothing for the court to enforce. My worry is that next time I do or say something my ex doesn't like she'll try to stop contact again as the contact schedule we currently have is above the original court order as the order was to progress in line with our daughters pace and development and I tried to get the agreed schedule in to a new order but the courts wouldn't do it.
Any help with this would be greatly appreciated
Thanks.