Hello fellow Dad's!
To cut a long story short... used to see kids every weekend for 9 months. I got a new partner and after 6 months I introduced her to my boys, things went downhill quickly with their mother/my ex wife of 10 years and resulted in me not seeing them for 18 months now.
Did a C100 application. After a 9 months wait it goes to court, was happy enough with the outcome.
The court stated I send letters once a month to slowly build a relationship with the boys as they are still quite young before we do face to face, I agreed with that totally but don't know the time scale. I did not have a solicitor and represented myself.
Their mother was instructed in the court order to send me a monthly update on their activities and interests (section 13 below) and also encourage the boys to send me letters, drawings etc... (section 11)
First month is up soon, I sent a 6 page letter with lots of old photos of us to help jog their memories, also tell them about my life now and all I got back was 2 drawings from the boys which covers section 11 of the order but nothing by their mother to cover section 13.
I then sent a letter to their mother recommending she read the court order again as she is not following what was instructed and hoping it was an oversite.
My questions are...
If she doesn't follow the court order what application do I make with the court for her "being in contempt of a order"
If she starts following the order and we send letters back and forth for a few months do I make another c100 court application for face to face contact, or is their another application I have to make?
Contacting her and asking to see them is out of the question. Things are volatile between us currently.
Thanks.
To cut a long story short... used to see kids every weekend for 9 months. I got a new partner and after 6 months I introduced her to my boys, things went downhill quickly with their mother/my ex wife of 10 years and resulted in me not seeing them for 18 months now.
Did a C100 application. After a 9 months wait it goes to court, was happy enough with the outcome.
The court stated I send letters once a month to slowly build a relationship with the boys as they are still quite young before we do face to face, I agreed with that totally but don't know the time scale. I did not have a solicitor and represented myself.
Their mother was instructed in the court order to send me a monthly update on their activities and interests (section 13 below) and also encourage the boys to send me letters, drawings etc... (section 11)
First month is up soon, I sent a 6 page letter with lots of old photos of us to help jog their memories, also tell them about my life now and all I got back was 2 drawings from the boys which covers section 11 of the order but nothing by their mother to cover section 13.
I then sent a letter to their mother recommending she read the court order again as she is not following what was instructed and hoping it was an oversite.
My questions are...
If she doesn't follow the court order what application do I make with the court for her "being in contempt of a order"
If she starts following the order and we send letters back and forth for a few months do I make another c100 court application for face to face contact, or is their another application I have to make?
Contacting her and asking to see them is out of the question. Things are volatile between us currently.
Thanks.
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