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latest video published by Brian Hudson
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Brian Hudson, Activist for Fathers who are victims
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He made some very good points about the family court “industry” being in the best interests of professionals running the industry, not the best interests of the children. And that shared parenting would reduce the number of court cases drastically. Kind of says that the main reason to prevent shared parenting is to keep the lawyers in business!
He’s on Twitter: Brian Hudson 333
He’s on Twitter: Brian Hudson 333
Question is... will there ever be a solution to all this, I think the main decision makes know whats going on but choose to ignore it.
He says in the video he’s trying to get a public enquiry- because yes it is criminal that Dads should lose their jobs, have their lives ruined snd go bankrupt and false allegations fester for years.
I think the only thing that could make real change is getting rid of the extreme feminist brigade - Cafcass are social workers - social workers are trained to a feminist model and biased towards Mothers. Psychologist reports before first hearing are needed IMO - to SE’s who is telling the truth and if one parent is an alienator.
He makes a good point about lawyers. If shared care was automatic , what would lawyers do? And how would they earn as much?
I think the only thing that could make real change is getting rid of the extreme feminist brigade - Cafcass are social workers - social workers are trained to a feminist model and biased towards Mothers. Psychologist reports before first hearing are needed IMO - to SE’s who is telling the truth and if one parent is an alienator.
He makes a good point about lawyers. If shared care was automatic , what would lawyers do? And how would they earn as much?
He's lobbying the Government about CMS being the cause of high suicide rates in Dads.
Activists won't help anything. Only protests and riots . like feminists always scream about things, protesting etc. If men went out on the streets with women support then yes things would change. I'm sure u all seen women protests and also men ( white knighting) around them, holding flags etc.
When had men ever came out to stand up for themselves?
When women had ever joined or spoke out for mens issues? Never or almost never.
Those men who had ruined lives, children taken away or became homeless or even commited suicide have or had mothers, sisters, daughters,wifes etc. Noone ever cared . Men are disposable in this society. We are appliances, must work,not speak. When it breaks , replace it with another one, new working appliance.
I'm sorry for negative comment but it's sad truth.
When had men ever came out to stand up for themselves?
When women had ever joined or spoke out for mens issues? Never or almost never.
Those men who had ruined lives, children taken away or became homeless or even commited suicide have or had mothers, sisters, daughters,wifes etc. Noone ever cared . Men are disposable in this society. We are appliances, must work,not speak. When it breaks , replace it with another one, new working appliance.
I'm sorry for negative comment but it's sad truth.
Most of the women in my life who have seen first hand what happens are appalled. My mum, my partner, my exes... they are all utterly appalled.
I've told many guys going through break-ups that their exes will play dirty. They never believe me. Until it happens. And it almost always happens.
To be fair, I've known a couple of mothers who really did do the right thing, kept it as civil as possible and didn't just go for the money. But they are in the minority.
I've told many guys going through break-ups that their exes will play dirty. They never believe me. Until it happens. And it almost always happens.
To be fair, I've known a couple of mothers who really did do the right thing, kept it as civil as possible and didn't just go for the money. But they are in the minority.
There are good people out there, never doubt that. the main worry is about the growing trend of this kind of mentality and behaviour. There will be a new definition of the genders.
"Primary carer" and "Human Cashpoint" spring to mind as the new genders.
sorry shouldnt be laughing, we have suffered a substantial amount at the hands of these narcissistic type characters.
I have to pay CM each month. £900 of it (which equates to more than £100 per night that the 2 children are not with me!)
I have my own ltd company. It has funds. However, due to cancer, operations and chemo, I don't work as much as I used to. However, I still have to draw money from the company to live, cover rent, feed the kids etc.
This amount is taxable. So my CM is based on it. The company funds are going down and I'm not able to work enough to replenish them. Yet I still have to pay CM based on what I (have to) draw out. This actually means I have to draw more out to cover the CM!
Basically, money I have that could see me through my final days of illness is being taken from me and given to the children's mother.
She has recently had a loft conversion and complete renovation of every room in their house. They have 2 working adults living there (not that her new partner should pay for our children, but he should pay his own share and that lowers bills etc). I am the only adult in my house. I pay everything.
The situation is grossly unfair, but they don't care at all.
I have my own ltd company. It has funds. However, due to cancer, operations and chemo, I don't work as much as I used to. However, I still have to draw money from the company to live, cover rent, feed the kids etc.
This amount is taxable. So my CM is based on it. The company funds are going down and I'm not able to work enough to replenish them. Yet I still have to pay CM based on what I (have to) draw out. This actually means I have to draw more out to cover the CM!
Basically, money I have that could see me through my final days of illness is being taken from me and given to the children's mother.
She has recently had a loft conversion and complete renovation of every room in their house. They have 2 working adults living there (not that her new partner should pay for our children, but he should pay his own share and that lowers bills etc). I am the only adult in my house. I pay everything.
The situation is grossly unfair, but they don't care at all.
sorry to hear about your situation, my own situation makes me sick, we have our own tests and trials i suppose
I missed this thread when posted at the time.
I've just watched one of his videos. The level of suicide in cms arrear cases is frightening.
In the general population its something like 10 in 100000 whereas in the cms arrears group its something like 965 in 53000.
Staggering
I've just watched one of his videos. The level of suicide in cms arrear cases is frightening.
In the general population its something like 10 in 100000 whereas in the cms arrears group its something like 965 in 53000.
Staggering