Beyond reasoning.

[Lee73]

After 3 years of coercive behaviour regarding our child I took the matter to court ( c100) and was awarded equal care. This didn't go down well with my ex and she recently applied back to court for a variation. She cited my mental health , neglecting our child whilst in my care and stalking her. Cafcass was involved and dropped the bomb shell that she had also claimed I was sexually abusing our child. She was also interviewed regarding these allegations and said she had lied to gain control of our child. She wants to apologise but I've said that what she has done is unforgivable. I've had friends ignoring me and now I know why. She has deliberately tried to cancel me...I could have lost our child, home and job. I don't want revenge but I'm going to protect myself and my child .

 

[Peanut 21]

That's unforgivable. I truly don't understand people who make these vile false allegations.

 

[Lee73]

That's unforgivable. I truly don't understand people who make these vile false allegations.

She works with children...it's a major red flag I would imagine.

 

[Peanut 21]

Surely she'll have repercussions with her job then?

 

[TwinDad]

Terrible behaviour, but incredible she admitted to lying, I can't imagine that's a common occurrence in child disputes.

I hope you have a good enough support around you who don't believe her vile allegations, those are the relationships to focus on.

Stay strong

 

[Ash]

Don't worry about what people think - they will see how things are - they will see you have equal care and that that wouldn't happen if she was telling the truth. Make new friends

 

[Lee73]

Surely she'll have repercussions with her job then?

I'm thinking this too. Report of child arrangements submitted to court which will contain the allegation and retraction with apology . It's early days but this needs to stop. I'm wondering whether to seek legal advice to make sure this doesn't happen again.