Hi all,
Currently have bail where I cannot speak to my ex directly or indirectly. Only via a “Trusted” 3rd person for childcare reasons.
The bail is for no DV reasons or abusive.
Now the ex has got her mum to send me a letter saying that she will act as a 3rd person and If I want to see my daughter I can for 1 hour at time through her.
Now, I think this is an absolute outrageous claim again. Controlling and manipulating the situation to their preferences as always.
Ex is saying I can have my child for 1 hour unsupervised via her family member.
I do not trust her family and have so far refused this contact….. I refuse to give into their demands and allow them to control the situation. The 3rd person contact should be arranged by someone I trust which they are not.
I have submitted my court applications which she does not know about yet…..
Do you think I should reproach her and ask for more hours unsupervised than the 1 they are suggesting? My thoughts are if it goes to court and they see she has already allowed me unsupervised contact, the longer legnths of this are better.
Do you think I should reproach and offer for one of my family members to be the 3rd person?
Thanks
Currently have bail where I cannot speak to my ex directly or indirectly. Only via a “Trusted” 3rd person for childcare reasons.
The bail is for no DV reasons or abusive.
Now the ex has got her mum to send me a letter saying that she will act as a 3rd person and If I want to see my daughter I can for 1 hour at time through her.
Now, I think this is an absolute outrageous claim again. Controlling and manipulating the situation to their preferences as always.
Ex is saying I can have my child for 1 hour unsupervised via her family member.
I do not trust her family and have so far refused this contact….. I refuse to give into their demands and allow them to control the situation. The 3rd person contact should be arranged by someone I trust which they are not.
I have submitted my court applications which she does not know about yet…..
Do you think I should reproach her and ask for more hours unsupervised than the 1 they are suggesting? My thoughts are if it goes to court and they see she has already allowed me unsupervised contact, the longer legnths of this are better.
Do you think I should reproach and offer for one of my family members to be the 3rd person?
Thanks