Hello All,
I hope you're all holding up ok.
Court has said we need to go back to mediation, my ex (via her solicitor) is insisting on selecting the mediators, providing me a list of 3 to choose from.
2 of them are ridiculously expensive, £400+VAT an hour, per person and the other is about twice as much as the previous mediator we used.
I have said I would be willing to pay only up to the cost of the mediator I have found, who's not in London (mediation will be remote anyway) so is much cheaper but no less qualified. Her solicitor is demanding I pay half the costs.
Nothing in the Order says who has the right to choose the mediator - her solicitor is acting (on her instruction) being incredibly argumentative, saying that if I don't agree to one of the mediators it will show we can't work together etc. I mean, I don't disagree.
Has anyone hit this issue before and what did you do?
Thanks.
I hope you're all holding up ok.
Court has said we need to go back to mediation, my ex (via her solicitor) is insisting on selecting the mediators, providing me a list of 3 to choose from.
2 of them are ridiculously expensive, £400+VAT an hour, per person and the other is about twice as much as the previous mediator we used.
I have said I would be willing to pay only up to the cost of the mediator I have found, who's not in London (mediation will be remote anyway) so is much cheaper but no less qualified. Her solicitor is demanding I pay half the costs.
Nothing in the Order says who has the right to choose the mediator - her solicitor is acting (on her instruction) being incredibly argumentative, saying that if I don't agree to one of the mediators it will show we can't work together etc. I mean, I don't disagree.
Has anyone hit this issue before and what did you do?
Thanks.