Hi all, I've been reading for a long time and the wealth of information has helped massively. I'm going to keep this vague as walls have ears as the saying goes.
Bit of background; Acrimonious split due to an affair, I'm with my partner I left my marriage for and we are happy. Ex wife has never got over this, it's now many years since this happend and the level of hatred has not subsided, in fact it gets worse weekly.
I emigrated to a different country after the split and was having regular contact with my kids via WhatsApp. Covid definitely wasn't on my side as you can imagine due to travel restrictions etc but as I was having regular contact with the kids and explaining the travel problems I thought all was well.
Fast forward to being able to see my kids and now things have taken a turn for the worst. My 2 oldest have cut me off and my youngest whom I have face to face contact with has pretty much cut me off between visits.
Had the Cafcass safeguarding call and they have stated no safeguarding issues. Ex didn't respond with any allegations on the C100 form.
I am now getting emails with veiled threats regarding smacking one of my children and there has been talk in the past of sexual abuse towards my ex wife.
She has point blank refused to co parent with me and treats our kids as possessions. Whilst no concerns have been raised by Cafcass I'm worried she may start mud slinging. What I've read about the FHDRA is that no evidence may be produced and the judge will decide the direction. Mediation has failed so that is not an option.
So my questions are, if she raises these allegations when can she do so? And if she point blank refuses to co parent how will this stand in court.
I feel like I'm climbing a never ending mountain at the minute
Bit of background; Acrimonious split due to an affair, I'm with my partner I left my marriage for and we are happy. Ex wife has never got over this, it's now many years since this happend and the level of hatred has not subsided, in fact it gets worse weekly.
I emigrated to a different country after the split and was having regular contact with my kids via WhatsApp. Covid definitely wasn't on my side as you can imagine due to travel restrictions etc but as I was having regular contact with the kids and explaining the travel problems I thought all was well.
Fast forward to being able to see my kids and now things have taken a turn for the worst. My 2 oldest have cut me off and my youngest whom I have face to face contact with has pretty much cut me off between visits.
Had the Cafcass safeguarding call and they have stated no safeguarding issues. Ex didn't respond with any allegations on the C100 form.
I am now getting emails with veiled threats regarding smacking one of my children and there has been talk in the past of sexual abuse towards my ex wife.
She has point blank refused to co parent with me and treats our kids as possessions. Whilst no concerns have been raised by Cafcass I'm worried she may start mud slinging. What I've read about the FHDRA is that no evidence may be produced and the judge will decide the direction. Mediation has failed so that is not an option.
So my questions are, if she raises these allegations when can she do so? And if she point blank refuses to co parent how will this stand in court.
I feel like I'm climbing a never ending mountain at the minute