Well what a journey, the gift that keeps on giving!
I've finalised child arrangements and have an order in place and finalised my divorce and financial proceedings and have that order in place. It consisted of 5 hearings, constantly being referred to as an abuser of both my ex and my children. All allegations were dismissed.
Thinking that was the end of it, I then received notice of a non-mol and occupational application by the ex! Again painting me as an abuser of her and the children. Thankfully the courts could see right through the applications and dismissed them, I had to concede a little in that I gave an undertaking that I wouldn't enter the FMH without her consent but the sale of the house is going through anyway so the undertaking falls off in a matter of a few months.
Whilst again I breath with a sigh of relief despite me knowing deep down inside I've always conducted myself in the right way, I still feel this isn't the end of it. I could tell by the ex's reaction in court she remained extremely unhappy despite the compromise offered in way of an undertaking. Sadly, I feel the only way to protect myself is going no-contact as much as possible. The judge could sense the bitterness from the ex and even stated this in court.
When does it ever end? I'm sure it doesn't. I just need to keep on focusing on my little ones and making sure they remain safe and happy. That's all that counts.
Keep going gents! Justice always prevails and I'm a firm believer in karma!
I've finalised child arrangements and have an order in place and finalised my divorce and financial proceedings and have that order in place. It consisted of 5 hearings, constantly being referred to as an abuser of both my ex and my children. All allegations were dismissed.
Thinking that was the end of it, I then received notice of a non-mol and occupational application by the ex! Again painting me as an abuser of her and the children. Thankfully the courts could see right through the applications and dismissed them, I had to concede a little in that I gave an undertaking that I wouldn't enter the FMH without her consent but the sale of the house is going through anyway so the undertaking falls off in a matter of a few months.
Whilst again I breath with a sigh of relief despite me knowing deep down inside I've always conducted myself in the right way, I still feel this isn't the end of it. I could tell by the ex's reaction in court she remained extremely unhappy despite the compromise offered in way of an undertaking. Sadly, I feel the only way to protect myself is going no-contact as much as possible. The judge could sense the bitterness from the ex and even stated this in court.
When does it ever end? I'm sure it doesn't. I just need to keep on focusing on my little ones and making sure they remain safe and happy. That's all that counts.
Keep going gents! Justice always prevails and I'm a firm believer in karma!