Hello all
Looking for some advice on my upcoming 2nd final hearing.
Background… I have an order in place that grants me every other weekend and parts of his school holidays and mid week visitation for 2.5 hours. I went for 50/50 as Cafcass also said it was doable but the courts sided with mum to an extent as at the time I hadn't had my son over night (since we broke up), so I reluctantly accepted that. 2 weeks after the final hearing she started breaking the order by abusing the wording of the order (the magistrates didn’t write a very compressive order) so I filed a C100 again. I now have another final hearing as it was deemed my application for variation has legs but I still want 50/50 and she is utterly against it, no reasons given she just can’t get over herself.
The main issue I have which her barrister digs in on is my son is a 40 minute drive away. To me that’s no big deal but has anyone had experience with this kind of sticking point? Again Cafcass said the journey is “doable” but officer did flop under questioning by her barrister in the first final hearing.
My ex has broken the current order 14 times but nothing has ever been done about it leading up to this, again any advice or experience of how I can get this dealt with as I know being a dad I’d get the book thrown at me. Im self repping also. I have also done a C79 application as part of the enforcement, does the C79 get taken seriously? I can prove all the breeches also.
My ex never submits her statements on time either and usually gets her barrister on the day of the hearing to draft her a statement so I can’t prepare for it, can I stop this happening with a plea to the court? I even ask for my new partner to help me as a Mckenzie friend but ex objects and gets her way, again any advice on this?
Her barrister is a piece of work so I don’t want to get railroaded and want to put my strongest foot forward as most of us know we are already on the back foot in these processes.
Any and all help welcomed and questions I’m happy to answer. Thank you
Looking for some advice on my upcoming 2nd final hearing.
Background… I have an order in place that grants me every other weekend and parts of his school holidays and mid week visitation for 2.5 hours. I went for 50/50 as Cafcass also said it was doable but the courts sided with mum to an extent as at the time I hadn't had my son over night (since we broke up), so I reluctantly accepted that. 2 weeks after the final hearing she started breaking the order by abusing the wording of the order (the magistrates didn’t write a very compressive order) so I filed a C100 again. I now have another final hearing as it was deemed my application for variation has legs but I still want 50/50 and she is utterly against it, no reasons given she just can’t get over herself.
The main issue I have which her barrister digs in on is my son is a 40 minute drive away. To me that’s no big deal but has anyone had experience with this kind of sticking point? Again Cafcass said the journey is “doable” but officer did flop under questioning by her barrister in the first final hearing.
My ex has broken the current order 14 times but nothing has ever been done about it leading up to this, again any advice or experience of how I can get this dealt with as I know being a dad I’d get the book thrown at me. Im self repping also. I have also done a C79 application as part of the enforcement, does the C79 get taken seriously? I can prove all the breeches also.
My ex never submits her statements on time either and usually gets her barrister on the day of the hearing to draft her a statement so I can’t prepare for it, can I stop this happening with a plea to the court? I even ask for my new partner to help me as a Mckenzie friend but ex objects and gets her way, again any advice on this?
Her barrister is a piece of work so I don’t want to get railroaded and want to put my strongest foot forward as most of us know we are already on the back foot in these processes.
Any and all help welcomed and questions I’m happy to answer. Thank you