Hi Everyone,
Thanks for reading my post. My partner reported me to the police for Malicious calls and abusive messages (which caused her stress and anxiety). It happened due to an argument. Police detained me for 24 hours and released on 3 months pre-charge conditional bail (not to contact or interfere her unless contact is made via mutual friend for child care). This decision by police was unexpected for her as she was expectimg 24 hours cooling down period. Social services also involved. She is worried now and preparing to contact the police to drop the charges / remove bail condition for the sake of kids. Her decision to call the police was made in rush. We have 3 kids (10,9,7 years old) living with her in our family house. I pay 100% household including mortgage. We were used to share the kids duties (schooling, other activities). Now it's all over the place. She has no issues with me to contact or meet with the kids. She is helpful and ready to do everything to remove the condition for sake of kids, for their well-being and mental health. I am not living in the family house anymore. I am not contacting her except via mutual friend for childcare. We dont want separation or divorce. What is the way forward from here? I highly appreciate your advice.
Thanks for reading my post. My partner reported me to the police for Malicious calls and abusive messages (which caused her stress and anxiety). It happened due to an argument. Police detained me for 24 hours and released on 3 months pre-charge conditional bail (not to contact or interfere her unless contact is made via mutual friend for child care). This decision by police was unexpected for her as she was expectimg 24 hours cooling down period. Social services also involved. She is worried now and preparing to contact the police to drop the charges / remove bail condition for the sake of kids. Her decision to call the police was made in rush. We have 3 kids (10,9,7 years old) living with her in our family house. I pay 100% household including mortgage. We were used to share the kids duties (schooling, other activities). Now it's all over the place. She has no issues with me to contact or meet with the kids. She is helpful and ready to do everything to remove the condition for sake of kids, for their well-being and mental health. I am not living in the family house anymore. I am not contacting her except via mutual friend for childcare. We dont want separation or divorce. What is the way forward from here? I highly appreciate your advice.
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